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If you are not in love, you are always searching for love. I don't care if it is on the internet, your local church or the hot spot for clubbing, you are hoping to find the one person meant for you. It is also true that searching is more about opportunity and persistence than it is about luck. If you happen to not be at the local hot spot the night your prince or princess was there, it was an opportunity missed. The same with searching a dating site. If you don't search every day and the person of your dreams becomes a new member the day you are not searching, you may of missed your opportunity to be one of the first members to contact that person. There is a lot to be said to the saying "the early bird catches the worm" especially in the internet world. For example, a new attractive lady member could get ten, twenty or even more emails within hours of her joining. If you are not one of the early birds, she may dismiss later emails until she has answered the other emails first. And who knows, she may of been the one you were waiting for that is now conversing with someone who got her attention the first day she joined. Searching only takes a few minutes. Since new members can join at anytime, why not routinely check for new members two or three times a day to increase your chances of being one of the first members to contact someone who interest you. It is easier, cheaper and faster than spending every night at a club hoping the right one comes along. Be persistent and never give up until you find the one for you. |