I probably average 3 or 4 emails a day from male members asking what is the best way to find the right Filipina Lady. To be honest, if I knew that formula I would be a rich author. But despite the different personalities involved, there are some things a man can do to make his journey more rewarding.

First, there is no guarantees. What makes two people click for one, may not work for another. There is no mold that fits for all ladies and for all men. We are individuals with qualities that make us who we are. This is why I say Filipina Lady dating begins in the heart. You have to trust those qualities and let your instincts be your guide. The problem is, some members instincts are not guided by their heart, but their hormones.

I probably said this a million times now, but you have to use common sense while searching. If a lady is asking you for money within the first few emails, your instincts should be flashing throughout your body saying this is not the path to love. When two people meet, getting to know each other is the first and foremost desire before getting to finances, but many men fall for a sexy or pretty face and think they can buy love. Wrong! You are thinking with your hormones -- not your heart.

Take your time, get to know each other, and only after there is an emotional connection should anything else go beyond the get to know each other stage of a relationship. Your heart and instincts can guide you if you listen.

Good Luck